An Easy Trick to Talking to Your Daughter about her Period.

Let me just be clear and say that I am not writing a sponsored post, I am not being paid to say these things at all.  I am just reviewing a product that I bought for my daughter that really opened up our conversation about her body and all that comes with it.

When I was young, my mother told me absolutely nothing about my period.  Not One Thing.  When I started my period I was terrified and kept it a secret for almost 4 months because I didn’t know what to say.  Thanks to school, I knew what a period was, but I was too embarrassed to talk about it with my mom or anyone in my family.  Since I became a mother, I knew that I was not going to allow that to happen to my daughter.

I never hid what my tampons or pads were and always answered honestly when she had questions about them as a little girl, but never went into great detail.  For that I waited.  I have been talking to my daughter about her period since she was probably 6 or 7.  I figured that this was too early for her to start her period, but late enough for her to start understanding. We talked about what happens and why and we talked about what she could expect.  Then, we she was 10 I ordered The Dot Girl Period Kit and we check it out together.  It has a fantastic little book of questions and answers and it even comes with supplies.  A reusable heat pack, some pads, some little trash bags as well as a period journal (so she can start keeping track of the dates of her cycle) and it even comes in a cute case!  The case does not announce that it is for your period so my daughter was comfortable putting the pack in her backpack to hold her stuff in case she were to start her period at school.

She is now almost a teenager and she still uses her kit to keep her supplies with her and we still talk often about our bodies and what she can continue to expect.

 

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20 Sweet Easter Desserts

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Don’t you just love all of the sweet treats that come along with the holidays?  If you are looking for some new dessert recipes to try out this Easter, look no further than this awesome list of 20 Sweet Easter Desserts!

  1. Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough Easter Eggs
  2. Easter Cookie Pops
  3. Spring Butterfly Cupcakes Recipe
  4. Carrot Cake Pops
  5. Jellybean Fudge
  6. Easter Candy Macadamia Bark Recipe
  7. Easter Rice Krispies Treat Cookies
  8. No-Bake Easter Nests
  9. Easter Gooey Butter
  10. Easter Candy Cupcakes
  11. Bird Nest Dirt Cake Cups
  12. DIY Candy Buttons
  13. Easy Coconut Macaroon Birds Nest Cookies
  14. Carrot Patch Brownie Bowls
  15. Copycat Reese’s Peanut Butter Eggs
  16. Springtime Filled Cake Cookies Recipe
  17. Cookie Butter Eggs
  18. Milano Cookie Easter Eggs
  19. Homemade Cadbury Eggs
  20. Easter Krispie Bars

10 Things You Should Expect to Hear if You are Over 35 and Pregnant

My husband and I have been married for almost 19 years.  We had our first child 5 years into the marriage with the second child coming 3 years later.  I won’t go into too much detail, but neither were very easy deliveries and it kind of slowed our decision to have baby number 3.  We never took the discussion off the table though and about 2 years ago we started talking very seriously about it.  I mean, I was in my mid 30s, I wasn’t getting any younger and if we were going to have a baby, it was now or never.  So…after the world’s longest “should we have another baby” discussion, we got pregnant!  I was 36 years old and so excited!  I was a very active 36 year old and I felt young so no worries, right?

Well, the pregnancy itself was relatively smooth other than I puked for 5 months straight and I couldn’t stay awake at all, but baby and I were healthy!  There was one pretty strong negative though and that was some of the things that I heard over and over.

I feel obligated to share with you what that was in case you are trying to decide if you want to get pregnant in your later 30s:

  1.  You are an “older mom.”  Really?  Why can’t we just be Moms?
  2.  You are of “Advanced Maternal Age.”  For real.  I heard this at every single doctor’s appointment.
  3.  “What were you thinking?”  You wouldn’t believe how many people have asked us this.
  4.  “You are older now, you know what causes this”  Yep, I literally had several people say this to me during my pregnancy.
  5.  “Aren’t you afraid someone will think you are the grandma?” hahahaha well, now I am.
  6.  Because of your “special pregnancy circumstances” you have to have lots of extra tests.
  7.  “It’s so risky though.”  Even though this myth has been debunked, we heard it over and over again.
  8.  “Did you wait this long because you now have built in babysitters?”  WTF?!  Seriously?
  9.  “Was it hard for you to conceive at this age?”  Well, that’s not really your business, but nope.  I was pregnant within a month of starting to try.
  10. “Are you going to have the energy to chase after the baby?”  Okay, honestly I am still pretty tired, but I do just fine, thanks for checking. 🙂

 

Are you an over 35 mom?  What kind of things have you dealt with?

8 Tips to Help You Throw an Awesome Summer BBQ

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I don’t know about you, but Winter can not end soon enough for me!  I am so beyond ready for the sunshine and flowers of Spring and the warm nights of Summer.  We have big housework plans for this Spring and I fully intend to have some awesome Summer BBQs here at our humble abode.  Because we had project after project to complete and not enough time to do it, the last several years have not been filled with all of the friends and family gatherings that I prefer, but with a new job (yay hubby!) we now have more time and more money to accomplish those projects and throw some parties!

Do you like to throw parties and backyard bbqs?  Do you want to step up your party planning game?  If you are looking for some ideas on how to throw an awesome Summer BBQ, then you have come to the right place my friends!

Here are 8 tips to throw an awesome Summer BBQ:

 

  1. Stick with the Staples. You want to throw a great BBQ, yes, but you want to enjoy it too right?  Then stick with the staples.  Burgers, dogs, potato salad, etc.  That’s what people go to BBQs for anyway!  Don’t get too stressed out about making a special menu.
  2. Make it a Pot Luck.  Invite your guests and let them know they are more than welcome to bring a side dish!  The more the merrier and the less work for you.  Most people like to contribute too. 🙂
  3. Make Sure to Have Refreshing Drinks to Cool everyone down!  Cold, refreshing beverages can make or break your party!  Especially during the heat of Summer, you need cool drinks on hand.  Try out our favorite Refreshing Blackberry Iced tea, it always gets compliments!
  4. Yard Games to the Rescue.  Break out the yard games to keep everyone having fun.  We like to do frisbee golf and horseshoes, but  you can always go with badminton or volleyball, depending on how much room you have.
  5. Get Your Playlist Ready.  Don’t you just love technology?  Instead of someone having to man the CD player, you can now create an awesome playlist (I do ours on Amazon Prime) and have the perfect playlist.  Hook up your phone or MP3 Player to a great bluetooth speaker and that’s it.  We use the UE Boom and we love it.  It’s waterproof, great for outdoors and it sounds fabulous!  I do recommend getting a darker color though, our white/blue one is pretty stained up from being outside so much.
  6. Simple Decor.  I don’t go crazy decorating, but I do love some strategic yard sting lights and Citronella torches.
  7. Don’t forget Dessert.  You can’t forget dessert!  Maybe go with a great fruit salad or, if you are anything like me…keep the grill out and start grilling those fruits! I love grilled peaches served with vanilla ice cream.  Yum!

 

We are going to have so much fun this Summer!

 

 

Radio Flyer Retro Rocket Ride On $21!!

How cute is this?  If you have little ones, this is a fun deal!  Amazon has the Radio Flyer Retro Rocket Ride On marked down to just $21, from its regular price of $39.99!

  • Realistic astronaut and space sounds.^Flashing lights on dashboard.^Under seat storage area.^Clicking nose cone.^Cool retro styling.

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Cute Fergalicious Women’s Lundry Western Boot – $16.69!!

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Who says looking cute has to cost a lot?  Right now you can get these Fergalicious Women’s Lundry Western Boot marked down for just $16.69 at Amazon!

This deal won’t last long so grab yours now!

  • Synthetic
  • Imported
  • Rubber sole
  • Shaft measures approximately 16″ from arch
  • Heel measures approximately 2.25″
  • Boot opening measures approximately 14.75″ around
  • Tall boot with woven detail back

This deal is available to Prime members only!  If you haven’t yet signed up for Amazon Prime, you can get an Amazon Prime 30-Day Free Trial.

HOT! Mega Bloks First Builders Big Building Bag Just $8.60!

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Amazon deals are amazing today!!! I just spotted this Mega Bloks First Builders Big Building Bag, 80-Piece, Pink for just $8.60!  This is the lowest price I have ever seen this!

  • 80 building blocks for hours of play
  • Blocks are big and easy for little fingers to assemble
  • Encourages hands-on exploration as children imagine and create
  • Compatible with all Mega Bloks sets for endless building possibilities
  • Portable, PVC-free bag zips to store all pieces

This deal is available to Prime members only!  If you haven’t yet signed up for Amazon Prime, you can get an Amazon Prime 30-Day Free Trial.

 

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